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Edit 2: an update/details about my then-BF https://www.reddit.com/r/GirlDinnerDiaries/s/zdpcTvd17f

Basically:

1. He liked me but would not tell me directly, I knew about it from his best friend
2. He thought I liked him first (wtf? I’ve NEVER even shown any kind of romantic interest or flirted with him), pls don’t ask how I knew. But I only knew this days after this event happened ‼️
3. He got frustrated because he kept trying to bait/lure me into confessing to him first, but I DONT EVEN LIKE HIM ROMANTICALLY!!!! So I didn’t say whatever he was hoping for me to say.
4. I asked him to just be direct and tell me what he wanted to say. He went quiet and just showed anger on his face. Then I chose to become the direct one, I told him “I’m not sure what you want me to say because you are being too vague. But do you want me to say that I like you romantically?”. Still silence from him.
5. He suddenly downed a whole bottle of soju, told me that I’m worth more than my boyfriend (yes I was in a new relationship at that time, probably why he got frustrated). SMASHED my items (laptop, ipad, everything on my desk, etc.), and snapped my chair into
6. Still wouldn’t tell me his point directly 🤷🏻‍♀️ male pride I guess. Just kept going with his bs about how I can find someone better than my then-boyfriend.
7. Long story short I cried, told him I don’t understand what point he was trying to make, my boyfriend came, my male friend went home.
8. He tried to hug me TWICE before he left. I avoided both attempts (yeah he still tried to do it after I avoided the first….)

Edit:

1. He paid for all the damages!
2. Yes I cut him off
3. My then-bf was outside but he didnt hear anything. We were having a house party at that time.

On a spike, by the fireplace. What is it?