Edit 2: an update/details about my then-BF https://www.reddit.com/r/GirlDinnerDiaries/s/zdpcTvd17f
Basically:
- He liked me but would not tell me directly, I knew about it from his best friend
- He thought I liked him first (wtf? I’ve NEVER even shown any kind of romantic interest or flirted with him), pls don’t ask how I knew. But I only knew this days after this event happened ‼️
- He got frustrated because he kept trying to bait/lure me into confessing to him first, but I DONT EVEN LIKE HIM ROMANTICALLY!!!! So I didn’t say whatever he was hoping for me to say.
- I asked him to just be direct and tell me what he wanted to say. He went quiet and just showed anger on his face. Then I chose to become the direct one, I told him “I’m not sure what you want me to say because you are being too vague. But do you want me to say that I like you romantically?”. Still silence from him.
- He suddenly downed a whole bottle of soju, told me that I’m worth more than my boyfriend (yes I was in a new relationship at that time, probably why he got frustrated). SMASHED my items (laptop, ipad, everything on my desk, etc.), and snapped my chair into
- Still wouldn’t tell me his point directly 🤷🏻♀️ male pride I guess. Just kept going with his bs about how I can find someone better than my then-boyfriend.
- Long story short I cried, told him I don’t understand what point he was trying to make, my boyfriend came, my male friend went home.
- He tried to hug me TWICE before he left. I avoided both attempts (yeah he still tried to do it after I avoided the first….)
Edit:
- He paid for all the damages!
- Yes I cut him off
- My then-bf was outside but he didnt hear anything. We were having a house party at that time.