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Wahlburgers buffalo wings, as a buffalo flavor connoisseur – these wings were alright. I hate how some buffalo flavored wings are very salty in taste.

 So basically I had an “argument“ with my mom (62F) because she got me these disposable shavers for my armpits. I took a shower, and she asked me if I used the shavers yet – so I said no. Then she said that I have to learn how to shave my armpits. That’s when I got so upset because I’ve been advocating for myself, but my mom always puts me down, saying I’m going to hurt myself. So I got annoyed, and I said that I already know how to. Then she said that I have a smart mouth. She started listing things I should do by myself, like picking out my own clothes (I have no bedroom and there’s little space in my apartment – my clothes are in laundry bags). I’ve been advocating for myself, and she gets mad about it. Like she thinks I’m ungrateful. She listed things that a NORMAL 22-year-old person should do. So I just ignored her, and she called me a “big shot”.

Yesterday, my parents called me over to pick out clothes from my laundry bag because I’m going out with friends. I was folding clothes, and then my Dad (72M) told me I was doing it wrong. Then I asked him to do it for me, and then he said I should’ve learned already. I told him that he didn’t teach me, and he replied with, “You can search it up on YouTube”. Then my mom said to me that she was about to say something, but she doesn’t because I’m sensitive. And then she told me to grow up.

I don’t know why they think I’m such an inconvenience to them 😭. They’re acting like I’m stupid. It made me pissed off too. I’m planning to move out; I just got out of university, and now I got my very first freelance work! Yay! But they don’t know about the work, though. What to do with parents expecting you to know things that they didn’t teach you? I know I have the internet, but I just want the connection with my parents teaching me things.