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First time poster !! I (20F) been talking to a guy (25M) for a couple weeks and progress was being made up until a week ago.

Just to give a little context, I’ve been out of the dating world and mostly focusing on myself for 2 years. I left a toxic relationship & vowed to never let another soul treat me that way again. I’ve been doing well keeping that promise to myself, a little too well that it sometimes feels like I cut men off for the smallest inconvenience. Because of this, I’ve been want to give this guy a chance.

We started texting a several days before our first date. The texts were thoughtful and some even lengthy, but not to a boring or excessive point. I should also add that he replied in a timely manner. He asked me out on our first date 3 weeks ago & it went great. He showed up early and grabbed the table, The conversation flowed really well, and we even shared a kiss by the end of it. The next day he asked me to breakfast and purposely picked a restaurant closer to me so I wouldn’t have to drive to the other side of town to meet with him. Once again, the date had went great with lots of good conversation and we even got to enjoy the weather at the park after. We both do enjoy gardening (if ykyk) so we were able to participate in that activity together as well.

After 1 more date that went just as well. we eventually became intimate. I began staying the night at his home several nights a week after that. The one thing I can’t help but to notice is that ever since I started seeing him indoor on a more regular basis, the communication outside of his home has become little to none. I no longer receive Goodmorning texts, or texts asking how my day is going. I try to make the initiative first & starting the conversations, only to be met by a reply 8hrs later, or none at all. He works 10 hours a day, 6 days a week, so I do take that into consideration, but just 3 weeks ago I was getting 5x the effort. He still invites me over, & even cooked for me the other day which leads me to believe that there is hope. But then he sends me texts saying things insinuating sex, and no more dates being planned. My main concern is wanting to connect outside of the bedroom like how things were in the beginning. Is this a conversation I should have with him or is it a clean break since the signs are already there ??? Thanks in advance