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so i had a lunch with my mom, grandma, bf, and bf's grandma today. we were taking his grandma out to lunch because she's been wanting to have a friend who she can talk to in her home language and all, and he was doing a favour for my grandmother (his work-related).

last night i asked him "can you talk to your grandma and double check where she wants to go for lunch?" he got pissy with me and said "she only eats [homeland] food, she's extremely picky", etc etc. in that tone (y'all know which tone i'm talking about). just like frustrated and pissy to me for no reason. i told him that he doesn't have to yell at me and he says he's overwhelmed and the conversation pretty much ends there because he went to the gym. ok fine.

before he got back from the gym, i ended up falling asleep. and then when i woke up in the morning while he was already at work, i saw he texted me about the lunch, so i hearted the message and went to my psych appointment (9:30am). i got ready and left for the lunch right after the appointment.

he was pissed at me ALL DAY today and i finally got to briefly talk to him and ask what was up. he said it's because i said "don't yell at me" and he felt like i was shutting him down, plus the fact that i fell asleep and only hearted his message this morning without saying anything to him.

like really bruh…. we are grown adults in a serious relationship and you're mad because i checked you on your attitude? for over 18 hours????? be forreal

context i am also dealing with a new psych prescription so i am veryyyyyy tired some days, like yesterday. also on my period so i was sleeping all day. why you mad that i fell asleep before u got back from the gym at like 9pm dawg

anyways sourdough toast with arugula, black forest ham, non-dairy garlic & herbs boursin, and a garlic tomato confit. looks kinda bad in this pic but is delicious and takes 15 min.