Hi, please say my sourdough is pretty đĽ˛
Iâve been having fun getting fancy with my sourdough loaves- I was gonna save it but instead Iâm about to eat it with olive tapenade bc I deserve it
anyway
just discovered my husband has been looking at nsfw subreddits featuring local people. Think âchicago Illinois casual sexâ or âMiami nudesâ but make it our small town. đ and I donât know how to feel about this.
For context, we have a great relationship, no history of infidelity, no reason to suspect. This whole thing is so stupid – I had checked his Reddit history to try to find a specific sub we were talking about (with his permission! In front of him!) and I saw these subs as recently visited. Ofc my heart fell out of my body and I immediately asked him what they were, and he was completely open and apologetic about it.
He has no chat history with anyone on reddit, no saved posts, nothing. He insists that he has never met up with anyone or intended to, and that it is more of a curiosity thing? He said he was searching for our cityâs regular sub and the NSFW ones showed up as recommendations and he checked them out because he was âcurious if he would recognize anyoneâ. I checked on my phone, and with safe search off, his story checks out- it is one of the first recommended subs, along with the handful of others in his history.
I have no issue with porn, we both watch it, itâs not an issue for us. However, it feels soooo intimate to specifically look at local people- as if the âwhat ifâ is part of the appeal. He says that he only looks âoccasionallyâ and to âget himself startedâ before going to something generic like nsfw gifs or something.
To be clear, I 100% trust my husband and believe he hasnât and wouldnât cheat on me, but I am really struggling with how to handle this. He has offered me full access to his phone but I donât want it. I donât know what to doooo
Anyway, I guess Iâm just looking for advice/thoughts? Am I being unreasonable for feeling hurt by this?Open to hearing from the lurking guys as well idk. Just needing to vent and cry and eat bread. thank you for reading â¤ď¸