I usually treat myself with a sweet treat when im down in the dumps, the low fat ice cream came from aldis, I used my own spiced peaches, and homemade trail mix brownies i made a day ago, could not eat all of it definitely too sweet 🫪. A good book usually helps too!
I have been having a hard time dealing with no friends.
For context: throughout school i had a friend and whatever. Well she went off to college in another state so we rarley got to see each other. I got my degree fairly early and started working. Well i have recently quit that job, and (hopefully) starting a new job at the beginning of August. While I have not been working I mentioned that maybe I should come to her college and hang out in the area while I was also asking for advice on this topic. She told me she was dealing with a similar issue at college but she didnt care if she had friends and ignored me coming and seeing her which was unusual (which we have not talked since then and i have tried to to talk with her). But i do get people grow in new places and what not. I've also asked my husband about this and we always go in circles.
I am content with my life but somedays I feel like im missing the 'had a long day I need to talk to my girlfriend' or 'this is amazing news and I need to tell…' etc. (And I know i have my husband but sometimes I just want the moments you can have with good friends)
I dont mean to sound like im begging for someone to talk to me, I would just like advice for anyone else whom maybe or have dealt with similar circumstances.