Hi yall.
I have full custody of my kids, after leaving my ex for DV. He was placed on supervised visitation. He doesn’t do his visits due to refusing to have a supervisor. Once in a while he will ask to FaceTime. I’ve never had a problem. But the last few conversations he was telling them that it’s my fault they don’t see him and to ask me when they can. My response is the same ‘when he tells me he’s available for a visit we can make one’ There’s nothing in our court order in regards to FaceTime calls. I have told him to stop telling them it’s on me and just to say ‘when we can’ or something along those lines. But he just started yelling at me for being a narcissist or controlling or parent alienating. I’m honestly so mentally drained from all this and trying my best to keep my cool in front of my babies.
My question is do I keep allowing the calls ? Do I cut it off completely? I want my kids to have a relationship with their dad, but the last thing I want is for him to convince them it’s my fault, and I don’t want to ruin my kids mental peace or physical health.