I’m a neurodivergent (audhd) woman casually dating. So far I’ve had bad experiences this month with one guy offering me a date rape drug and telling me how he had a restraining order pressuring for sex. etc..
Then the other guy said he’s been to jail multiple times etc..
And this other guy was pressuring me for sex too
They all did a similar hang out which was just their car or apartment
This guy I was messaging organized a date for us. I said I didn’t have a ride and he offered to call me a ride there and back home. To a movie theatre. I was unsure if this was normal so I joined this Facebook group “are we dating the same guy”
I thought it would be helpful because they post about guys they date and if the guy is a red flag or not. If they engage in behaviors such as SA and other toxic behaviors. Since I was going on a date, I thought it would be good to post there. My post got approved by the mod and then people were saying if I was only “hooking up” that there was no reason for me to post
Im not hooking up with the guy, but I guess because I wasn’t looking for a long term relationship with him my post wasn’t appropriate for the facebook group. (?) I wanted to know if the guy was safe or not due to my past experiences with men
I’m still wondering if it’s safe or if I should be wary
For dinner I’m having a tortilla with cheese. And crackers and hummus ! 😀