We’ve known each other for four months now and meet up twice a week,our time together is always nice and fun. I’ve asked him a few times if he wanted something serious; his answers were always non-committal, though he did say yes. Today, I finally asked him what we actually are. He just replied that he hadn't really thought about it and asked what I wanted. I told him I’d like to be his girlfriend, but he said he needed time to think it over because his last relationship didn't go well. I was so hurt that i just started crying, he did comfort me, but didn't really said anything.. so i just got up and said that i didn't want this anymore if he didn't know whether he wanted a relationship yet and left. He just seemed overwhelmed after all that. Im really confused because his actions always proved that he genuinely care about me and like me he never did give me the feeling that im just for fun or smt but why did he say that he needs time, i mean why would u rather lose me then be with me.. im so hurt i don't know what to think or do