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Hey yall!
My boyfriend (M35) doesn’t have any problems with erectile dysfunction. He does however enjoy having a pill occasionally during sex. He says that it makes him harder and last longer, leading to even better sex.
We have been together for 2,5 years. He has had a box of these pills at home since I met him. Earlier on we used them a few times, but recently not at all. I don’t think we have used them for the past year maybe.
Now to the scary part. The past few months, I’ve noticed that they have been disappearing when I’m out of town! At first I thought I might be imagining, so I did a count. And yes, a pill disappeared when i went away for the weekend.
I can’t wrap my head around this. Is he cheating on me or is he enjoying long masturbation sessions? Is that normal?
I know I should talk to him. But we had a similar situation maybe a year into our relationship. I found hidden condoms. They were up on the highest shelf in our apartment (I’m a short short gal) hidden underneath a box. A place he knows I never go to. But I talked to him about it. Sorted it out, kinda. He didn’t really know why they were there. So I just assumed it was something from the past. Moved on, but sometimes I’m regretting that I didn’t investigate it further. I’ve been cheated on in past relationships, so it’s a very deep rooted fear I have.
Help me, how should I tackle this!?